tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post7759867351891464290..comments2023-06-22T06:46:19.888-07:00Comments on Just another disenfranchised father: Ghosts of children still aliveJohn Doehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05326982429461344063noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post-20049250555825538772007-06-25T12:05:00.000-07:002007-06-25T12:05:00.000-07:00I cannot fathom how you are feeling at this moment...I cannot fathom how you are feeling at this moment.. my husband has had full custody of is children from his first marriage since his children were 1 and 3. We cannot get their mother to take a more active role... I wish you had his fortunate cirumstances. I wish you the greatest of luck.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post-24609957441885495722007-06-23T19:33:00.000-07:002007-06-23T19:33:00.000-07:00Thanks anon, I already saw the link, check out my ...Thanks anon, I already saw the link, check out my news ticker column on the left side of the page.John Doehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05326982429461344063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post-8071695176587293802007-06-23T17:54:00.000-07:002007-06-23T17:54:00.000-07:00I'm only twenty and I don't plan on having kids, b...I'm only twenty and I don't plan on having kids, but even if I can't dream of the pain you feel, I support your cause. In any case, you might be interested in this: http://www.slate.com/id/2168389/ . It backs up your case in a powerful way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post-9487100325476563802007-06-23T17:07:00.000-07:002007-06-23T17:07:00.000-07:00I have one small photograph of my son in my living...I have one small photograph of my son in my living room, and yet it dominates the whole room, like a tiny, but painfully bright star.John Doehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05326982429461344063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post-66201674643335273672007-06-23T09:44:00.000-07:002007-06-23T09:44:00.000-07:00In my living room is a photograph of Emily - it to...In my living room is a photograph of Emily - it took me 2 years before I could bear to have one somewhere in my sight, it was just too painful to have a physical reminder like that.<BR/><BR/>Going to the supermarket became a torture with children her age in prams or trolleys and making me think how she looked now, what she was doing and was Emily ok.<BR/><BR/>Now here's your comment - don't quit, never give in and remember your child no matter what - dammit !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com