tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post1040516449241226297..comments2023-06-22T06:46:19.888-07:00Comments on Just another disenfranchised father: Single parent custody: Seven years in the hole.John Doehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05326982429461344063noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post-31089835878844645722007-02-15T15:23:00.000-08:002007-02-15T15:23:00.000-08:00Hawa, thank you for your comment. If I do tip ove...Hawa, thank you for your comment. If I do tip over that edge, I trust that you will set me straight. Somewhere along the unhappy road I have been forced to walk, I remember reading that many men who lose their children to injustice end up having "problems with women", which was clearly code for "become misogynists". Frankly, I am not surprised, since much of what they experience feels very much like a betrayal by and for women. But that would be a mistake, many of the causes of these injustices have been set in place and are enforced by men as well as by women.<BR/><BR/>And not all women are so inclined. Some, despite loathing their ex partners, still believe it is best for their children to encourage a relationship with them. Also, as I have often pointed out, it is not just fathers who become disenfranchised, there are mothers shoved out into the cold too.<BR/><BR/>Nevertheless, this is beside the point. If I were to tip over that edge and become misogynist, then I could not cry "misandry!" and "patriphobia!" without hypocrisy and therefore I would be no better than they are.John Doehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05326982429461344063noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16103538.post-81108083417517185382007-02-12T13:21:00.000-08:002007-02-12T13:21:00.000-08:00Disgusting. I appreciate the way your blog brings ...Disgusting. I appreciate the way your blog brings terrible bias to light. Sometimes I cringe when it feels like you might tip over the edge and bash women for the sake of it... but I must say... you are refreshingly balanced about the whole topic.<BR/><BR/>I am dating a man who hasn't seen his children in <I>years</I>. They are older teens now, and my heart breaks every time he sees a family and remembers the one he lost. I told him about your site, and one day, he and I will work together to reunite him with his children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com